Sunday, September 7, 2025

David & the mystery of death...

 

Sun Sep 7th 2025

Hi folks,

Trust all is good with you! Once again, for anyone who didn’t hear it, this is not a church post, there is no mission, no fund raiser, nor anything like that; just a journey into the Kingdom in the here and now, for all who are interested.

This week we look at that strange incident when David, now married to Bathsheba, has to face the death of their child. I say strange, because it is most unlike the kind of responses to death that we are all familiar with. We grieve, we mourn, we cry and weep, and do this individually and collectively. For some time after, we may be revisited by memories that range from warm and loving to sad and bittersweet. Death is relational to most of us. The more we care for someone, the closer the relationship, the more likely it is that we will feel their loss. Our sorrow is because we cannot recover that which has been lost. This is particularly acute when death comes unexpectedly, as it can and sometimes does, in all instances of cause and effect.

David does nothing like that in this instance. He has, up to the moment of death, done all that he can; he has fasted, prayed, beseeched God, all to no avail. The child has not recovered and has died. David gets up, washes, eats, changes his clothes, and gets on with life.

What are we to say to this? We have no idea how he felt on the inside, so we cannot know or assume to know. All we can see is that his functionality is in no way compromised by death. It does not mean that he does not care or grieve over his loss. But the standard expressions of grief are not there. David continues to be a different man in many ways, and this is one of those ways that make him unique. Should we agree? Or disagree? Or count it as an exception? Do we even need to have a response at all, other than to be ourselves? AT minimum, it is a good reminder not to be incapacitated by loss. How so? Because both the Testaments speak of returning to God, and Jesus says so. This is critical. If we believe Jesus said so, well and good. We may be true blue biblical Christians. But that is not enough. Only knowing this will make the difference, and that is only possible in the space between your spirit and the Holy Spirit.

Suppose we take it from there then, and ask -  what does it mean to be ourselves in the face of death?

Are we euphemistic about death? Death and dying are not popular words. It is common to say that someone has passed. We understand that to mean that they have passed away from this life, are gone and are no more. Do they exist in some different shape or form? Are they still themselves, but in a different place? Who gets to go to ‘heaven’ and who must face ‘hell’? These actualities have been hugely oversimplified. They are not and have nev er been black and white issues. We must ask ourselves, not just what we think in facing the death of others, but how we intend to face death ourselves.

Let me cut to the chase. We are mostly preoccupied/concerned/focused  …I am not sure which word fits best, but we are far more conscious of our bodily existence than we are of our spiritual existence! Yet, as Sting once sang, we are Spirits in a material world!  Is our bodily preoccupation why many balk at the thought or possibility of death?Perhaps it is a question of identity consciousness that we must work on?

In my view, personal testimony serves best here, not academic theology or logical persuasion. The operative words in scripture for me have been ‘I go to prepare a place for you, that where I am, you may be…’ and ‘this day you will be with me in paradise (not sure if the Aramaic transl. really says ‘paradise’. Does not matter.) These NT verses echo the OT ones that say in Ecclesiastes that at death, the spirit returns to God who gave it. And my journey beyond faith and belief began at those points and moved forward. You must choose that which speaks to you. I can only point to what I find and experience.

It has grown to become more than belief or a matter of faith. It is an experience that only you can discover for yourself. And it begins here and now. Enough for me to say for now that the dominant Christian traditions have had little to share about death and the life beyond. No one comes back to share anything, do they? Ah well, so much for epistemology.

We still do R.I.P’s all the time. What does that mean? Rest in peace, Latin form? But it’s a cold dark end – for the body that is. And for the spirit? That is what the Holy Spirit can and will teach to those who seek it.   

This is why, as we age, and the body begins to wind down, the spiritual life that we live is of the utmost importance. We will deal with all of this incrementally and slowly. I have no desire to lead anyone or mislead anyone! You must find out for yourself. And only God can show you. Only if your will of your spiritual experience is aimed at transcending your bodily limits, will this kind of experience become reality that transcends faith, belief, and religious teaching. As I said, the mind controls the body. But the spirit controls the mind. That is the upward journey. It is meeting God in the space between.

It seems weird but only because it is so very different from the ways of the world. When we are done with David we will look at Elijah and Elisha, for they precede Jesus in many ways. Only then will we get to the first section on the mind of Christ. God’s strange differentness is real and is out there. Abraham was old but God asked many things of him. And enabled him. Same with Moses, when he led Israel out. Jesus completed all of the actions and teachings that went before him. His words were critical of the establishment then and its claim to power, and his actions turned all expectations upside down. Jesus has not changed. We have become too used to the ways of the world. So we say to ourselves that it’s nice to hope, but we don’t really know. But seek the knowing. Ask, and ye shall receive.

The proof of the life beyond death is in your God given ability to make your spirit, not your body, make a difference in how you live and function in this world. The body is a vehicle, and it is controllable. At death it is discarded. If some of us think  - well, the teaching is that at death we fall asleep, and will remain asleep until the Lord comes again, we are most welcome to think that. But I ask you to think of the resurrected Christ, whose being moved through walls. No, that is not a physical bodily thing anymore. Something totally different. And some of us may feel, yes, at that final day we will all be resurrected just like that.  Just as some of us may think of Revelation and look for signs and wonders that tell when and how. But the way of the Spirit and the ability that the Spirit gives is here and now. The Kingdom of God is not a wait until you die experience.

We must learn the real things of the Spirit from the bottom up, and it can be a slow journey.  Has been for me anyhow! We must learn how we can will a positive difference and then go out and make that difference happen. We must challenge ourselves. And the Holy Spirit will teach each of us. This is God’s desire for one and all. As is truly said, seek, you will find. 

As we proceed, those of us who are determined, will find ourselves growing at a different speed, strength, and awareness, from those around us. This is why Jacob’s Ladder is a good lead. He dreamed, and saw a ladder, and there were angels on it. Start there. Dream your way into reality. The lines are never as clear and fixed as we have been told that they are. God waits. Jesus calls.

David learned something of this. And it rubbed off on him, causing him to behave differently from the norm in so many ways. Here, in this instance, he rises above physical death. It is as if he has achieved some insight into the seeming finality of death, I will go to him, but he will not return to me. Can’t go backwards, only forwards. Death is not the end. Just a new beginning of something else – a life in the Kingdom.

And to make it there, we do not have to wait until our time of death for God to decide our fate! We can decide now. It is much more than some ‘I take Jesus as my Savior thing.’ That’s just the entre!  It is a commitment to walk and practice God’s ways, ways that we all almost know by God given instinct, and to watch and listen for God’s leading. For it is there for all of us, but few listen. Hence, many are called, few are chosen.  

The true spiritual life is a life that uses mental and physical capabilities to their limits and then exceeds them as needed. It is Psalm 8 becoming real here and now. And it is doable. Walk this way. May the Lord of light himself lead and guide you every day. May you exceed your assumed capabilities in thought, mind, deed and ability in every possible way.  Blessings, G.

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